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I’m negotiating an agreement for extraordinary expenses. I’m the paying parent.
Child support is not a problem but for extraordinary expenses we can’t agree.
The child is 2 months old.
Comparing incomes, I must pay 82% & she 18%.
She will live in another country & take the baby with her.
She wants:
- A car, I must pay 100% of it & 82% of gas, insurance, repairs, etc.
- 100% childcare (I agree).
- 82% of any toys she’ll buy
- 100% for extra classes (piano, gim, etc).
- yearly vacations for the baby: 82% of tickets & extras. As the baby can’t travel alone, she is “forced” to go & claims 100% of her tickets & expenses.
- 100% health care. (In Canada the baby has my extended health & dental care, but not outside Canada).
- $500/month for tuition funds for baby’s post-secondary.
We never married, only lived together 6 months.
Can I fight any of these expenses? Are they fair considering she’s taking the baby so far I won’t be able to pay ticket to visit my baby?